SEVEN OF WANDS. This card is about the need to cut down your problems one by one. Don’t let them build up, and thereby overwhelm you. What I see in the card today is: You feel hemmed in, that your options keep getting smaller and fewer leaving you with conflict. You need to deal with issues as they come up, not avoid them to avoid conflict. If you don’t deal with them ASAP they get worse and more. This is what has been happening, you would rather ignore a problem hopping it will go away on its own until there is no option but to deal with it and the conflict it is now going to cause.
You need to start dealing with your roommates when the issues occur, not later when it is now a big problem. At this point your options may be to move, or get new roommates because you let things get too out of hand. Now you have to deal with a lot of conflict, anger and frustration. Things would not be this way if you had just opened your mouth and said what you where really thinking. Now you have to deal with, “It did not bother you before, what is your problem now?” Learn from this, deal with things at the time, not days or weeks later.
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