I am seeing this as a life issue not a day-to-day issue. I say this because the card was showing this as being in your work life and social life. It kept flipping between the two. I see someone, or two people, are dumping their work on you, or are not doing their part and expecting you to pick up the slack. I also see it as two people who are constantly turning to you for advice on every thing, and never listen to you, they expect you to pick them up, drive them around or go where they want to go and don’t seem to care what you want to do. You also tend to bail them out of money problems all the time.
You find that you try to help someone and the next thing you know you are being sucked into their lives and problems and are giving up too much. They become to rely on you and then just expect you to fix things, or always be there. I am not saying don’t be nice anymore, just put some boundaries up and take care of yourself first.