Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 19 2008

FOUR OF SWORDS. This card is about the lifting of tensions. What I see in the card today is: You need to make some changes today. You can only do so much, be there for so many, give your time and energy to only so many projects or people. You have to start saying no. Drop some commitments. Stop taking on so many you are doing too much. Let people deal with their own problems and take some time for you and your family. You cannot do everything yourself delegate what you can, I know it is hard to give up control but you have to. So you think the only way to get things done right is to do it yourself, you are wrong. You are not getting anything done as well as you could because you are trying to do it all. Let go already, start living and having fun instead.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 18 2008

THREE OF SWORDS Reversed. This card is usually about heartbreak, unless you can communicate. As the card is reversed it indicates that you are due for heartbreak no matter how well you communicate or because of what you say or you are not due for heartbreak no matter how bad you communicate.

What I see in the card today is: You are going to get heartbreak because of what you say and do. You are responsible for your own actions and the consequences. You think that you have the right to say and do what you want with out realising what you are putting at risk. You have put your foot into your mouth one time to many and are about to pay for it. You cannot keep hurting others and expect them to stay and keep taking it. Eventually they have enough. You act as if only you and your needs are important but that is not true and you are going to loose out because of that. And you are the only responsible no matter what you tell yourself and others. The saying goes “you reap what you sow” and trust me you are getting back only a part of what you did to others. Learn from this.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 17 2008

THE LOVERS Reversed. This card is about obsessive relationships. Refusal to learn from relationships. What I see in the card today is: You have to let go. It is time to heal. You need to move on, but you are not ready to. I should say that you just don’t want to. For some reason you have this idea that if you keep trying you can get relationships to work, even after they are broken beyond repair. It is as if you associate the failure of a relationship as you being a failure. You keep trying to get back into a relationship long after it is over. You are always running the would have, could have, should have scenario in your mind about the way things could have been if only.

Once you are ready to move on to another relationship, you are not really. You just transfer the emotional baggage onto someone else, dooming any and all relationships before they even start. You are also attracted to the same type of person. This is not good for you. You need to find a way to change this cycle. You are not going to be able to change the past in your new relationship, but somehow you are trying to do just that. Get some help. Talk to someone. You deserve to be happy and the only way that is going to happen is if you deal with this problem. Otherwise you are just going to keep reliving it.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 16 2008

KING OF COINS Reversed. This card is usually about a man at the top of his trade or profession. As it is reversed it is about someone who is not at the top of his or her trade or profession. What I see in the card today is: You have made some decisions about how you live your life. You like having a roof over your head and food on the table so you are working for the paycheque so that you can have that. You need to work to survive. The job is just a job, not who you are, how you see your self, but a way to put food on the table. You are having to decide if you need to take a second job, and you are more then likely going to need to. Even working full time money is tight. You need to work a second job to build up some savings or emergency money because right now if something happens you don’t have the means to survive it. Pride is not what is important here, working and keeping a roof over your head and food on the table are.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 15 2008

KING OF WANDS. This card is about a man of leadership. What I see in the card today is: There is going to be a strong male leader in your life. He is passionate, strong, determined and powerful. He is going to have a direct effect on your life. What he does today is going to determine how things are going to be for you for a while. This does not mean that you don’t have any control over your life, just that there are some things that are so big that they effect everyone involved, that trickle down effect. This is going to have an impact on how you live your life. Or at least force you to make decisions and prioritize what is important to you.

Basically you have to live with the consequences of his decisions.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 14 2008

SIX OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about learning about living in harmony with those around you. As it is reversed it indicates about learning that you don’t need to be in harmony with everyone. What I see in the card today is: You don’t get along with everyone. There are people who are in your life that are set in their ways, their way is the way it is done and that is that. They are unable or unwilling to change. You have to deal with them, but you don’t have to like them or even agree with them to get things done. You just have to figure out a way to get through this and know that you don’t have to change who you are, and they don’t have to change who they are. You will find it emotionally draining to deal with this person and they feel the same way about you. You are not ever going to be friends, or best buddies. You will but heads all the time. You are both strong individuals. You don’t have to get along. You don’t even have to try. Just accept it that you don’t and then deal with it, move on and do the “Agree to disagree”. Big the bigger person in this. Say “You know what, we are never going to agree on this or other things, let move on, end of conversation.” Just because you don’t agree does not mean you have to fight. You are learning that everyone does not have to like each other to get things done. Not everyone has to like you, you don’t have to act a different way to try and keep him or her happy. Just be yourself and don’t get pulled into the argument, walk away.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 13 2008

TWO OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about a new relationship starting, or a new phase in an existing relationship, however it is reversed indicating nothing is changing, or there is an end to a relationship. What I see in the card today is: You are emotionally tired. You would like things to change but are to emotionally tired to try or even care right now. It is more that you would like something to happen but only if you don’t have to put any effort into it. All the changes have to come from someone else. Because of this nothing is going to change. You don’t have the emotional energy to end the relationship or try and change it so it is going to stay this way. It will not change until you make it change and you just don’t care enough right now to try. Understand that you are not going to get anything emotional out of this relationship unless it changes, you will always be emotionally drained.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 12 2008

SEVEN OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about confusion and the need to get your priorities in order but it is reversed. This indicates that you have your priorities in order and are not confused. What I see in the card today is: You know what you need to do to get where you want to be. Emotions are the problem though. Just because you know one thing with your mind does not mean the hart follows. You have a lot of emotional ties and demands. Other people are having a hard time understanding your priorities, and what that means for the them and that is causing some conflict. You need to do what is best for you, and where you need to be. It is emotionally draining but the truth is that you can only deal with so much effectively. You deal with what is important to you and let others deal with what is important to them.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 11 2008

ACE OF WANDS. This card is about a new initiative. What I see in the card today is: You know what you want to do. Now you just have to go out and do it. Today is the day you start. You are trying to make a change and get some control over your life. This is one way to do it. The problem is that you are very good with intent but not follow through, this time you need to do more then start to make a change, you actually have to do so.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for October 10 2008

FIVE OF CUPS. This card is about disillusionment, if you rely on the commitments of others. What I see in the card today is: You let someone have a chance and they let you down, again. It is emotionally fulfilling knowing that they need and rely on you but it is not fair on either of you. You need a life and so does he. Stop avoiding the big conflict. You know he is not going to do what he says and you know you will fight about it, but it is not the real issue. You have to deal with the real problems, even if it means the end. You both need to deal with this now. You have already wasted enough of your time on someone who is not going to take any responsibility as long as you accept it, and fix it all the time.