SIX OF COINS. This card is all about wanting to be generous, but the need to be more discriminating. What I see in the card today is: That you need to keep a balance. It is to easy for you to be generous in your time, money, energy and focus. You have to work at keep the balance so that you are not putting all your time, money, energy and focus dealing with and helping out others. You need to keep some for yourself. You have already burned out once and have been taken advantage of to many times to count.
You have finally recognized the imbalance and made changes to correct it so that you are taking care of you and yours, not everyone else. You have had to learn to say NO, and to put yourself ahead of others. Now you have to balance that so you don’t go back to giving everything to everyone else, and at the same time stay whom you are. You do not want to become someone so self-involved that you cannot see past your own wants or have no empathy for others anymore.
It is going to be difficult but you can do it. You have the strength not to let others take advantage of you anymore and at the same time not to disconnect yourself from people. It is time you put yourself up on a pedestal instead of taking care of everyone else.