TEMPERANCE. This card is about reflection on one’s life and maturation. What I see in the card today is: You have reached a point where you feel comfortable about looking at your past and have accepted that you can not change it, just your future. You Learned from your mistakes and grew up a little more. You don’t get upset anymore thinking about the times in your past when you wanted something but did not get it, or when things did not go your way.
However you still have a ways to go. You need to control your temper and your impulses. You still have that child like attitude about getting what you want when you want it. Tantrums don’t work so well for adults, nor does going off in a huff to pout. So what it things don’t always work out the way you want them, that is life, deal with it.
People have always been there to help you, now you just seem to expect it. And you get upset when people do not do what you want. It is not your place to expect people to do things for you or your way. Time to get a reality check and look closer at your actions and their consequences. Take responsibility, and don’t expect others to carry you or clean up your mess anymore. You grew up but now you have to grow up and be the adult.