FIVE OF CUPS. This card is about disillusionment, if you rely on the commitments of others. What I see in the card today is: You have had expectations of people before and have been let down. The problem is that you expect people to do what you want and when you want it with out considering their needs and lives. This causes a lot of conflict in your life. Some how you always perceive it as if others are always letting you down, not that you place unreasonable expectations on others.
You are the type to call someone up and tell them that there is a fundraiser going on and that you volunteered them to do something, and here is the when and where. Then you get all put out when the person already has something planed for that day, or just does not want to do it. You take it as if they are letting you down instead of realising you took unacceptable liberties with their name and time. Being able to control others gives you some type of emotional fulfillment, but at the same time cause a lot of conflict.
You need to understand that if you want something done, you should be the one doing it, not expecting others to do it for you. If you do you are going to be let down. People don’t want to do what you want or expect them to do. You are setting yourself up for disappointment and conflict.
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