QUEEN OF SWORDS Reversed. This card is usually about a determined woman, but with a barrier between her and others. As this card is reversed it is about a woman who is not so determined and needs a barrier between her self and others. What I see in the card today is: That you have been compromising way too much. You give in or give up what you want to make others happy, to keep the piece. All that ends up happening is they keep taking more from you, and walk all over you.
You know this but you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, or be selfish, or have any conflicts. Standing your ground and not letting people take advantage of you is not being selfish. If you saying no I want to do this instead or that is mine hurts someone’s feelings then they can get over it, you have a life too. If they cannot get over you putting yourself first for a change, you don’t need them in your life. The same goes with conflict, if you have to always do or give what others want all the time to avoid conflict then there is something wrong with the dynamics of this relationship. If it is all give on your side and take on theirs you deserve better.
It is time to put your self first today and let others deal with it and get over it.