THE HERMIT. This card is about withdrawal and reconsideration. What I see in the card today is: you are feeling disconnected from those around you. You have decided to take sometime to get yourself back on track. You need some time to reflect where you are, who you are and where you are going. You don’t like what you have been seeing as your possible future and would like to make some changes in your life to have a better future.
The problem is that the people around you just don’t get it. They think; why work so hard and struggle to make changes in your life you should just accept it. They are not interested in being anything more then they all ready are. You are finding that you are pulling away from them because they don’t have the same drive and goals as you do. You still like them but you cannot be like them. It is hard for them to understand your dedication, and they are not very supportive of you.
You are going to have to make some decisions about what you want to do with your life and decide what you have to change to get there. To be blunt the longer you spend time with people who think you are wasting your time trying to improve your life the harder it is going to be for you to leave that life. If you need to make changes in your life to be who you want to be then you need to start doing that now, not latter.