THE EMPRESS Reversed. This card means too easy-going and not sticking up for your own rights. What I see in the card today: This is about giving in because you love someone or think that if only you let them have their way it will make things better. It is letting your need to nurture and protect another is overwhelming your common sense. You want to protect their feelings and show how much you care, that you are there for them. The problem is that you are giving too much and not leaving anything for yourself. There is an imbalance in that you take care of them, go out of your way to make sure that they have what they need or want but don’t have anything for yourself. At times it is easier to give in or give up what you want to avoid conflict. You have placed other people before yourself. This is OK to a point if it is your young children that you have placed before yourself, because that is was a parent does. However I don’t see this as a parent child relationship. This is a relationship of adults, but you have taken a “parenting” roll, nurturing and protecting them and sacrificing your own needs. You need to be aware of this and start making changes so that it is a relationship of equals.
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