The Tarot Card of the day is: FIVE OF SWORDS Reversed. This tarot card is usually about crossed swords, and a parting of ways. The tarot card is reversed indicating that though there may be crossed swords there will not be a parting of ways, or if there is a parting of ways it was not caused by crossed swords.
What I see in the tarot card today is: Avoiding conflict is not going to resolve the real issue. You are not getting along. You don’t see eye to eye. Things are not good for both of you. Avoiding dealing with it or arguing does not change that you are heading for different directions. Neither one of you wants this to end, but at the same time are not enjoying where you are and what you have.
You are both trying to hang onto a past that no longer exists other then in memories of good times and happiness. That is not enough to keep going. You need to accept that things have changed. You are both unhappy with the way things are now. They are not going to improve, you cannot regain the past.
You can try to grow and change together, but that means you both have to give up part of who you are to do so. Just because you are not meant to be together anymore does not mean you have to dislike each other or part in anger. It is better to sit down and talk about it, and work things out for the best, even though it means parting. It is not doing either one of you any good staying together. Make the needed changes before you begin to hate each other for things you cannot control or change.