Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 30 2009

THREE OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about a reunion with friends. It is reversed indicating a parting of ways or not reuniting with friends. What I see in the card today is: You don’t have the time and energy to deal with people from your past. They are in your past for a reason. You would rather not have to deal with them and their issues right now. You are going to avoid them every chance you get for the next little bit.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 29 2009

EIGHT OF SWORDS. This card is about frustration. The need for patience. Can’t see the way out of a problem. What I see in the card today is: You are frustrated. You feel boxed in. That your options have been taken away. There is a choose open to you but it is one you would not accept. Other options will hurt yourself or others. This is a hard place to be in and one that you did not put yourself into. Others have worked hard to put you in this difficult situation. There is no acceptable direction you can go. You need to wait. Things will fix themselves as time goes by. The less you do about this or even react to it the better for you. Sit back, relax and watch what happens when the truth comes out and new doorways open up for you.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 28 2009

TEN OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about emotional commitments. It is reversed showing a lack of emotional commitments. What I see in the card today is: You are not emotionally committed. You feel you should be and act as if you are, but inside you are not. Everyone is expecting you to be committed to this. There is no one who you can talk to that would understand how you feel. You are supposed to feel one way, it is expected of you. To be any different is just wrong somehow.

The truth is that you are not committed because it is not your commitment it is someone else’s and you are just expected to go along with it. They are committed so you are expected to be as well. Things just don’t work that way. Just because others feel one way does not mean you will as well. You will find your own things to be emotionally committed to eventually.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 27 2009

THE DEVIL. This card is telling you, “Don’t let your own negativity hold you back. Enter into the swing of things a bit more.” What I see in the card today is: I don’t want to do this. I just want to get this over with. That is how you feel. You are not enjoying yourself at all. You don’t want to participate right now. You don’t have the hart. There is no energy and drive in you right now. You know you need to start doing things again so you are making yourself do stuff. But you don’t want to so you resist. You dislike it because you feel you are forced to do things. You need to change the attitude and find things you like to do, and do them.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 26 2009

SEVEN OF SWORDS Reversed. This card usually is about making an important but worthwhile sacrifice. It is reversed indicating that you may not have to make a sacrifice or if you do it will not pay off. What I see in the card today is: You dodged the bullet today. You somehow managed to get through the day without having to make the sacrifice. Good for you. Guess what, you still have to make it. Just not today. You are not going to be able to avoid this for much longer. You know it. Stop fighting it and deal with it.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 25 2009

JUDGMENT. This card is about powerful transformative energies. Immense pressure. What I see in the card today is: Today is not going to be fun at all. Everything has been building up to today. This is going to be a day full of conflict, strain and frustration ending with change. Things cannot continue the way they have been. Things have to change. Things will change. It just will not be a fun or easy process.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 30 2008

TWO OF COINS. This card is about the same line of work, in a different place. What I see in the card today is: You very much enjoy your work, or job. You find it interesting and diverse enough and you take pride in what you accomplish. However you are not feeling valued at your current workplace. You do not feel part of a team, or that you are much more then your job title at your current workplace. You want more then that.

You want to work at a place where you feel appreciated and are treated as a valuable part of the team. You want to receive as much value as you put into your job. That you not only receive a paycheque that reflex the quality of your work and how much of your time and energy you invest into it, you also want the verbal and non verbal positive recognition for all the hard work you put into your job and how well you do it. You want to be an equal or at least near equal as those you work with and for, a valued part of the team.

A paycheque is not enough anymore. Enjoying your job is not enough anymore. You want to feel as if you are a part of something and that you are contributing. To do this you need to start looking for a new job now.

Do not let your employers know this as it is going to take time to find the right place, the right job, and the right employer. Do not limit yourself to your current geographical location in your job search. You need to start looking now, making the contacts and getting to know people so that when the right position comes up they think of you. There is not an opening now, but if you put the time and effort into letting people know that you are interested in working for them when one comes up it is going to pay off for you.

It is going to take some time so you need to keep your current job and keep looking and maintain any contacts you make. Eventually you will have the position and employer you want. They will not have any problem with you needing to give your current employer notice once you know you have a job with them.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 29 2008

ACE OF CUPS. This card is about emotional fulfillment. What I see in the card today is: You are content, and are emotionally fulfilled right now. Part of this is due to helping others out and feeling appreciated and useful, that you have made a difference. The other is that the people in your life do appreciate you and care about you. They give back emotionally as much as you give to them. They are able to express and communicate to you how important you are to them, that you are valued for whom you are, not what you can do. This is a rare thing, usually someone who is as giving and caring as you are is surrounded by takers only interested in what they can get; be it your time, attention or money. You have people around you who truly care about you. You are also incredibly lucky because they know how to communicate how much they care.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 27 2008

SIX OF WANDS Reversed. This card is usually about victory, successful attainment of your objectives. However it is reversed. This indicates that you are not successful in reaching your objectives. What I see in the card today is: You thought you won, you got your way, but you actually did not get what you wanted. In the winning, you lost. Winning was more important to you then the damage you were doing to get your way. There are just some things that you just cannot undo or take back once it is done. You lost sight of what you really wanted and concentrated on winning or being right. You lost the very thing you were fighting for.

You thought that if you got your way things would be one way and they are not. People don’t respect you because of your title, they may respect the title, but you as an individual have to earn their respect. Being right does not mean that you are going to be happy. As Dr. Phil has been known to say: “Would you rather be happy or right?” If being right is more important then dealing with others respectfully and considering their feelings and opinions to be just as valuable as your own it does not matter if you win or not, you lost.

It is time you refocused and re-evaluated your goals and objectives. What are you giving up for them and how are you going about it. Have you become so focused on the end goal that it is all you care about?

This is a warning card because you have tunnel vision so bad that you don’t even see the damage you are doing, the bridges you are burning. You are sacrificing things you don’t need to. There is nothing wrong with continuing going after your goal, just be more aware of what you are doing and rethink what you value.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 26 2008

EIGHT OF SWORDS. This card is about frustration, the need for patience and being unable to see the way out of a problem. What I see in the card today is: You have blinded yourself from the clear path out of your problems because you know that the solution is going to hurt you. You are going to have to give things up, some people are not going to like you because of what you have to do to get out of this problem. No one is going to step up and do it for you, no quick fixes here.

You need to take that blind fold off and actually see what your actions are doing. You got yourself into this with your eyes open, now you can only get out of it with your eyes open. It is not going to be easy or fun for you. The only way out is to accept the consequences and you are not willing to do that right now. You want someone else to do that for you and let you get out Scot-free and that is just not going to happen. Until you are willing to face up to the consequences and understand that you got yourself into this, there is no one else to blame, then you are just going to stay where you are, digging that whole ever deeper. If you are not willing to do the time (or face the consequences) then don’t do the crime.

You are still too selfish and don’t think you should have to go with out, or understand why you cannot just do what ever you want and never have to deal with the consequences.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 25 2008

TEMPERANCE. This card is about reflection on one’s life and maturation. What I see in this card today is: That you have reached a point in your life when you can just look back at your past and just accept what has happened with out the would of, could of, should of. These does not mean you don’t have regrets but that you are not reliving your past with all the different ways it could have been if you had done this or if this was different. You can accept that this is what happened and there is no going back to change that. You can let it all go and move on with your life. You are not giving the would of, could of, should of have any control of your life, you are living for today and tomorrow not yesterday.

This is a wonderful place to be. It means that you have reached a level or maturity that not everyone reaches. It takes a great burden off of yourself to not have to keep trying to fix the past and re-live it, but to move on and be comfortable with yourself and your past knowing you cannot change it now. Your past no longer controls you; your actions today are what are important.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 24 2008

THE HERMIT Reversed. This card is about isolation and alienation. What I see in the card today is: You are feeling left out and alone as if everyone around you does not include you. It is not that you are not around people but that you just don’t seem to be part of any group. You are not finding it easy to become a part of a group no matter how hard you try to get their attention. They just don’t seem to be interested in including you, let alone getting to know you. This is very difficult to live with.

Being able to identify yourself with in a group is very important, and very hard to do if you are just not accepted. Eventually you just stop trying and live in loneliness and depression because there is no one out there to talk with or hang out. I can tell you that you are not alone in this; it just feels that way. You will be able to connect with people, just not the ones you are trying become friends with right now. You are trying to hard and that is not helping. Stop trying to find friends, start looking at activities you like and find out where you can do that.

Join formal groups or activities not to make friends but to do what you enjoy. Chances are once you stop trying to make friends and just relax and do what you like you will find others with the same interested and friendship will grow from that. Go out and do things, and if you don’t find what you need in one group or activities, look for other places and groups to do that activity. Also you need to understand that you don’t need to be friends with the most popular people, or have tons of people to call friend, you just need one or two people who are real friends.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 23 2008

QUEEN OF SWORDS. This card is about a determined woman with a barrier between her and others. What I see in the card today is: You are so focused on the results or completion of a goal that you are missing out on everything else that is going on around you. You have lost touch with friends and family because you are so focused. You are sacrificing the very thing you are working so hard for. The goal has become more important then the trip to get there. You need to be dedicated and work hard but at the same time you need to enjoy your friends and family. What is the point of working so hard if you loose the very thing you are trying to help, your friends and family. A pay check is only money, it can be very lonely if that is all you have. What value does reaching a goal or getting a job title have if you sacrificed everything to get it? You need to value your friends and family and put time and energy into them as well, have a more balanced life.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 22 2008

THE WORLD Reversed. This card is about fears and carrying the world on your shoulders. What I see in the card today is: You have been taking on the responsibility of someone else’s actions. You are constantly making things right as if it was your job to take the consequences for them. You are afraid of what will happen if they have to take on responsibility and the consequences of his/her actions.

To be blunt you are not doing anyone any good by doing this, you are actually making this much worse by not letting them take responsibility and have to live with the consequences. This person will never learn nor change and you just end up having to deal with things that are just not your problem. Eventually he/she is going to do something you cannot fix or you will not be there to fix it for them. This person has no incentive to change or grow; you are taking those opportunities away from them by taking away his/her responsibility. This person can just keep doing what they want, when they want with out having to deal with the mess they leave behind. This has to stop, or it is just going to get worse. You need to stop now and let them get hurt now so he or she can learn.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 21 2008

THE EMPEROR Reversed. This card is about being unable to receive from others and being bossy. What I see in the card today is: You have become so used to doing things on your own that don’t know how to let anyone else do something. You cannot let go of the control. You don’t expect others to help; you expect to have to carry all burdens yourself.

You have trust issues; problems letting people close to you and you resent that you always to do things yourself. You don’t see that you are the person causing this. Every thing has to be your way; you have to be in control because you don’t trust others to do their part. You are very hard to be around. People don’t help because you don’t want it, or you make their lives hell the whole time and then just do it yourself anyway. You don’t ask for help, you try to do everything yourself.

You believe the only way to get things done right is if you do it all. Then you start sticking your nose into what other people are doing because you just know they are doing wrong you’re your way is better then what they are doing. You are always telling people what to do and when to do it, and not in a nice way. Your not trying to help people, you are trying to take over. You are not a fun person to be around. Let it go.

If someone asks you for help or advice, sure then you can help. If someone is buried under paper work, sure offer to help, but don’t try to take over the job or change how they do things. If you rushing to get everything done and someone offers to make coffee or help organize things or even just to set the table let them do it. It is a small thing and it will make them feel helpful, and take some stress off of you. So everything is not done to your standards, it is done and on time. People are not going to care that you did not personally do every little thing yourself, just that it got done, and to their standards. This is for both work and socially.

If you have guests over for dinner, do they really care if you set the table or if someone else did? Do they care if you personally arraigned the flowers or let your kids do it? Right now you are missing out on a lot of the big things in life because you are worrying about being perfect at the little things. What is better telling your kids to get out and leave you alone because your getting ready for the party, or to ask them to help and be part of it, show pried in what they have done be it set the table, fold the napkins, do the flower arraignment, or what ever? How can they feel pride and accomplishment if you are constantly denying them the opportunity, or nothing is ever good enough in your eyes? Just think about what your missing out and what else those around you are missing out on.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 20 2008

THE HIGH PRIESTESS Reversed. This card is about being superstitious and or deluded. What I see in the card today is: You have been disconnected from yourself and your belief system. You have lost touch with nature and empathy, the ability to connect with others. It is like you are a little boat with its moorings severed and you are just bobbing along the sea, lost with no idea of where you are, where you want to be or what is going on.

I don’t know if you have pulled back and have severed your contact or connections deliberately or not. What I can tell is that fear and hurt are keeping you disconnected. I don’t know if your are doing this more because as long as you are disconnected you don’t have to deal with the pain and lose, or if it is more that you are protecting yourself from being hurt in the future. I believe that it is a combination of both. If you can hide the pain away then you don’t need to deal with it, and if you never let anyone close they cannot hurt you.

The longer you keep this shell or wall up the harder it is going to be for you to take it down. It will become a way of life, not a temporary thing to let yourself adjust. You need to decide if you want to stay cut off and disconnected or be a part of something again?

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 19 2008

PAGE OF COINS. This card is about wanting to change your line of work or take on more responsibility. What I see in the card today is: You are looking for a change and a challenge. You are tired of the same old routine and you want to expand, do more, and experience more. This is not just in your work, but your life. You are so ready to do more, be more and have more. It is time to go for a better job or a promotion. This is great for you, just don’t expect the rest of the word to be ready or aware that things have changed for you and that you want more. You have to let people know, get out there and go for what you want. You are going to have to work for the better job, or promotion. Just because your ready does not mean it is going to be handed to you. Don’t give up, just be realistic on how quickly you will be able to make this change.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 18 2008

STRENGTH Reversed. This card is about being too emotional and not thinking things through. What I see in the card today is: That the fear and anger about the health of your child is clouding your judgement. I am seeing that the child was hurt intentionally and that is what is killing you. You are becoming so lost in your anger (justified as it is) that you are not there for your child the way you need to be. Let others deal with finding and punishing, you hold your child’s hand. That is where you need to be now. Let your love push away the anger for now, you will have time to deal with that after. Now you just need to give your love and strength to your child. Your time and energy is much better spent holding and comforting your child. Don’t let anyone stop you from showing your child how much you love and care for them. Please don’t loose your chance to be with your child because of your anger about what was done. Being there for your child is more important then anything else.

You have my sympathy and sorrow that this happened. I want to say everything will be ok, but I cannot. I just know your child needs you now and you need to be there. No matter what happens now nothing will ever be the same.

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 17 2008

FIVE OF WANDS Reversed. Normally this card is about being a challenge for others and that you need to hold fast to your resolve. The card is reversed which indicates that you either cave in all the time to others wants or that people find it easy to disregard your objections and opinions or find it easy to influence you. What I see in the card today is: You are too worried about what others think of you. There are two people in particular that seem to rule your world. What they want is what you want and do. They have more control in your life then you do. If they think something is cool or fashionable then so do you. You have your own opinions but you don’t voice them, mainly because you already know that they are not interested in hearing what you have to say. This is not healthy for you. You need to make some changes, become your own person again. Some how you have lost yourself in being their friend. If they are your friends then they should value who you are and what you have to say. They don’t. You don’t want to risk your social standing by alienating these two, and I don’t blame you. Just realise that the only power these two have over you and your actions is what you give them. Don’t let their opinions change who you are. You may even be surprised to find out that not every one likes these two, nor values their opinion, but they might just like you and value your opinion. For now you feel safer being friends with these two, but you need to ask yourself would you be happier not being friends with them?

Dragon Tarot Card of the Day for April 16 2008

THE HIGH PRIESTESS Reversed. This card is about being superstitious and or deluded. What I see in the card today is: You have unrealistic expectations in yourself and others. You expect things to work out in your favour with out putting work into it. Your expectation is that others will do it for you. This is not going to work. You need to start understanding that you are not entitled to anything, nor can you expect every thing to be handed to you. This may have been how your life has been, but that is about to change. Time for a wake up call, and a cold bucket of water. You are so focused on yourself and your needs and wants that you have no empathy for or understanding of others. You have become disconnected from nature and understanding how things work in the real world. You also lack any spiritual guidance or connections to any belief system. You seem to be only interested in the materialistic side of things and immediate satisfaction off all your wants and desirers. You are not going to see yourself in this reading but the people in your life will identify you right away. Hopefully those that care about you will point this out to you in a nice way.