JUDGMENT Reversed. This card is about phobias and obsessions. What I see in the card today is: You don’t want to change. You will do whatever you have to so you can hang onto your past, as if it is current. The reality is that you need to let go, move on and get back into life. You can resist as much as you want, you can be as obsessed with keeping things the same and hanging on to what you know, but it is not doing you any good. It is holding you back, harming you both emotionally and socially. It takes a lot out of a person to try and keep reality in check at the expense of everything else. Stop it. Get some help. Things have changed and you need to accept that and move on. Heal and grow or you will never have anything but the memory of what you once had. Reality is a lot better than memory. Stop denying yourself the opportunity to have something real again.
