KNIGHT OF CUPS Reversed. This card is usually about an emotionally sensitive man as it is reversed it is about a man who is not emotionally sensitive. What I see in the card today is: You would like to be more open, more sensitive but you have been burned too many times to let yourself be vulnerable. That may change one day once someone has earned your trust but until then you will do what you have to so you can protect yourself. You cannot afford to become emotionally attached to others until you know them well enough and have spent enough time with them to feel that they are going to still be part of your life tomorrow. You don’t want to risk emotional attachments if you don’t know it the person is going to be in your life for a long time. It is a catch 22 in that you are unable to bond with people for fear of being hurt so you are actually pushing the people in your life away because you don’t seem invested in them. Only you will know when you are ready to risk being hurt again, until then be prepared to be lonely and only have superficial friendships and relationships. That will not change until you are ready and able to be vulnerable and emotionally sensitive again.
