THE HERMIT Reversed. This card is about isolation and alienation. What I see in the card today is: You are feeling left out and alone as if everyone around you does not include you. It is not that you are not around people but that you just don’t seem to be part of any group. You are not finding it easy to become a part of a group no matter how hard you try to get their attention. They just don’t seem to be interested in including you, let alone getting to know you. This is very difficult to live with.
Being able to identify yourself with in a group is very important, and very hard to do if you are just not accepted. Eventually you just stop trying and live in loneliness and depression because there is no one out there to talk with or hang out. I can tell you that you are not alone in this; it just feels that way. You will be able to connect with people, just not the ones you are trying become friends with right now. You are trying to hard and that is not helping. Stop trying to find friends, start looking at activities you like and find out where you can do that.
Join formal groups or activities not to make friends but to do what you enjoy. Chances are once you stop trying to make friends and just relax and do what you like you will find others with the same interested and friendship will grow from that. Go out and do things, and if you don’t find what you need in one group or activities, look for other places and groups to do that activity. Also you need to understand that you don’t need to be friends with the most popular people, or have tons of people to call friend, you just need one or two people who are real friends.
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